IF I AM NOT MY DRAMA THEN WHO AM I?

In my humble view, the journey of self-discovery, is one of the main objectives of being alive. The thing is, we develop in our earlier years based on a number of factors that we don’t consciously choose. In fact our development is strongly influenced by the people around us, specifically those in our immediate family environment. Of course the social […]

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PREPARE TO RIDE THE WAVE – 2017 and beyond.

I just love the picture above. There is something so daringly exciting about this tiny human facing the extreme forces of nature and riding this humungous wave! The odds seem insurmountable and yet he does it notwithstanding – his thrill and joy is palpable. Breathtaking! But there is something deeper here that I think the artist is trying to convey. And […]

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CA(SA) – START TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE. Visualization – Is it that magical or does it really work?

Virtually every book on goal setting includes a chapter on visualization – visualize your goals and they will magically come true. I’ve always considered this poppycock! Without focused hard work, nothing happens – sitting in an armchair and manifesting outcomes just does not gel with me. My left-brain-thinking mind just rebels! Or so I thought . . . . Recently I did […]

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COACHING OR MENTORING – WHICH WAY TO GO?

Often I get asked what the difference is between a mentor and a coach. Quite honestly I find it difficult to stand on any side. I suppose that is because I’m a bit of both and accordingly I can’t really distinguish any major differences. To me it’s semantics. But for the purists there is most certainly some defining differences. […]

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CA(SA) – Don’t believe everything that you think!

One of my own coaches is taking me through a course about unlocking deeper intentions.And so positive thinking , affirmations and all that junk is back on the table. I have always known that negative mind-talk is the continuous chatter that happens in the head at a deeply subconscious level. Furthermore its intensity, texture and power varies depending on events. The dynamic is […]

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